Life can actually turn on a dime. Set the tone. Complaining simply is not worthy of you. You can gripe all you want, yet what good does it do you? Griping keeps you where you are and where you SAY you don’t want to be. Don’t stay in the same place then. It would seem that you have tethered yourself in discomfiture and won’t let go. Your battle-cry is “Unfair!”
Choose a new battle-cry. Never underestimate your own power for good in the world.
Bite your tongue. Heretofore, you have been blabbing overmuch about the difficulties you face. Blah blah blah. Come on now, folks, head in a new direction. If you would like your Life to become more agreeable to you the way you say you do, then welcome your Life to change. Invite it. Change your tactics. Renew your choices. No lolling around like a star victim. No longer take solace in the unfairness of Life. Take a new tract. Champion yourself. You can do it. You are the only one who can do it.
If you want to eat a ripe plum, reach up and pluck it. True, a ripe plum can fall from the tree right into your lap, yet don’t wait for the plum to drop. Life doesn’t have to prove itself to you. Better that you prove yourself to Life.
If you want to be a star athlete, practice. Don’t be laissez-fair. Take your own pulse. Rise to the fore.
If you are in a rut, get out of it. Be responsible for your Life. Make your own luck. Forage for yourself. Be beholden to yourself. Take a new direction. Hop to it!