Some People Are Holding Grudges Against You For Things They Did To You | I Heart Intelligence.com
Holding grudges is ultimately a toxic habit. There’s a quote about this I like: “Holding a grudge is like drinking a poison and expecting the other person to get sick.”
When someone holds a grudge, it isn’t good for them. But it’s also of no consequence to you, especially if they’re holding a grudge for the wrong reason.
Some people will hold a grudge against you for something that they did.
They’ll hold a grudge against you for the way you reacted to their wrong-doing, whether you blew up at them or let it slide. If you blew up, they might hold a grudge for your aggression. If you let it go, they may hold a grudge against you for not feeding the fire they wanted to start.