The phase you are currently in is all about shifting from doing to being, from efforting to flowing, from judging to accepting, from false power to authentic power, from the doubting of the mind to the trusting of the heart, from separation to inclusion, from conditional love to unconditional love for both yourself and others, from martyred service to joyful service that honours everyone involved. All of these shifts allow you to move forward with greater ease, comfort, and joy.
You will not be perfect at embracing the new all the time. Be gentle with yourselves. Lovingly redirect yourself if you forget and revert back into the old. You are learning to lead and respond with your wisdom which creates new habits and supports new templates. You will not mess this up, Dear Ones, because the old is expired energy for you now and it would be too uncomfortable to stay there for any length of time.